Why am I unhappy with everything but unable to change?
Why am I unhappy but unable to change?
This is my first time asking a question, so bear with me. I'm wondering if others have had the experience I am having now.
I am flat out unsatisfied, unhappy, and disinterested with every aspect of my life. Even the little treats that used to cheer me up are empty. I feel like I am searching for something yet have no idea what I need.
But all the while, I am absolutely unwilling and afraid to change. Moving to a new house is financially possible and something that has been on the to-do list for a long time, but I cannot commit to making it happen.
Changing jobs could be a good thing, but I am terrified of looking into the job market after eight years with a company.
I can't get interested in hobbies and I avoid social situations out of preference.
So all the while I know I am unhappy about everything, I cannot be motivated to make a change.
I'm taking some meds now for depression, but there hasn't been a combination that has worked well thus far.
Has anyone any experiences they can share to help shed light on what I am experiencing?
-d
This is my first time asking a question, so bear with me. I'm wondering if others have had the experience I am having now.
I am flat out unsatisfied, unhappy, and disinterested with every aspect of my life. Even the little treats that used to cheer me up are empty. I feel like I am searching for something yet have no idea what I need.
But all the while, I am absolutely unwilling and afraid to change. Moving to a new house is financially possible and something that has been on the to-do list for a long time, but I cannot commit to making it happen.
Changing jobs could be a good thing, but I am terrified of looking into the job market after eight years with a company.
I can't get interested in hobbies and I avoid social situations out of preference.
So all the while I know I am unhappy about everything, I cannot be motivated to make a change.
I'm taking some meds now for depression, but there hasn't been a combination that has worked well thus far.
Has anyone any experiences they can share to help shed light on what I am experiencing?
-d
Answer:
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I find myself in the same place as you. I also am on medication but mine is for anxiety. I guess that you can't do what you want to for exactly what you said the fear of change. People tend to do the same thing over and over everyday because they are afraid of doing something new.
Hang in there though it'll be alright. I can also relate to the looking for jobs. Today's economy is terrible so if you can stick it out then stay with your job cause looking for another one can be a pain. Trust me I'm there. And I'll be 32 in less than a week.
Your house will come when you are ready for it to. Don't try to rush it at all. Always smile when you get up and say Today will be just as good as yesterday. Get out of bed on a positive note and hopefully that will make your day a little better.
Hope that helped some
Take care
Hang in there though it'll be alright. I can also relate to the looking for jobs. Today's economy is terrible so if you can stick it out then stay with your job cause looking for another one can be a pain. Trust me I'm there. And I'll be 32 in less than a week.
Your house will come when you are ready for it to. Don't try to rush it at all. Always smile when you get up and say Today will be just as good as yesterday. Get out of bed on a positive note and hopefully that will make your day a little better.
Hope that helped some
Take care
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